Greetings Everyone, I joined because I think if I'm going to last five months until I see him, I may just lose my mind without some support, and I thought this might be the place. So a little bit about us
My name: Kirsten
His/Her name: Kayne
I live: California , USA
My age: 22
He/She lives: Christchurch, NZ
His/Her age: 24
Distance: The Pacific Ocean
Together since: March, 2009
My current boyfriend at the time, had gotten me to play a text based game, we had been together for five years and were pretty much having a rough time. He had lived with me for a year without getting a job, helping out around the house, or offering any sort of support in the relationship. However I was always too afraid to hurt him, too guilty to do so. Around Christmas I had run into this person, who was, unlike anyone I'd ever met. There was an immediate attraction, it's almost hard to describe. We spent a lot of time getting to know each other, and after three months time he went away to greece for a week. I was somewhat aware of my feelings I would say and, when he came back, he told me he loved me. I was a bit shocked at first, but then realized what I had been doing all along. How I would wait every night for him, how happy I was just talking to him, how I missed him, I realized maybe I was falling for him. So I broke up with my current boyfriend, something I never thought I'd have the strength to do, but finally I realized I deserve better, I deserve to be loved. The past three months have been like nothing I've ever felt before. We talk for hours every night on the phone, we send gifts and letters back and forth, share pictures and have webcam dates. I never thought someone was perfect for you, I always thought you had to compromise, that you shouldn't expect to be swept off your feet or fall into such romanticism, I never thought I would get exactly what I wanted, and every day, I'm flabbergasted to find that out more and more. It feels like we've known each other our whole lives, like we know every little detail, sometimes I think he knows me better than I know me.
We get to see each other (approximately how often):
Though we've never physically met, we talk almost every night for hours on end
I had planned to visit him this coming November, for about nine days and if all went well, then I would consider living with him once I got all the details hammered out with moving to another country. But he just surprised me and told me that when I flew back home in november that he would be coming too, and would stay with me for awhile. -swoon-
Anyways those are the basic details. Good luck to all of you Long Distance Lovers!
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